Back in the new tub. We're going to Desire in Cancun and we'd like you to come.

Jade and Kidder watch Tristan Taormino's The Expert Guide to Anal Pleasure for Men.

Kidder hopes you love his book, Sex is Fun, Creative Ideas for Exciting Sex and if you are intending on buying the book for someone you care about, to buy it on September 20th from Amazon.

Please join us for the most amazing vacation ever, February, 19th-26th, 2011. We're going to Desire in Cancun, the clothing optional sex-friendly resort where we can hang out and have tons of fun. We're going to make this trip so much fun and so comfortable that even first timers will never want to go home. Sign up on our website today to save $50 for each fully inclusive day you book. You only need $500 down to get started. We can't wait to see you in Cancun. For more information, go to SexisFun.net.

Listen to Jade and Lorax plead with you to join them in a tropical paradise of clothing optional bliss.

Join us in Desire! Sign up now for a significant discount on your trip. Buy a copy of Kidder's book, "Sex is Fun!"

Questions answered in this episode of Bathtalk:

What do you wish you'd done earlier in your relationship?
What do you do to jump-start your relationship when in a lull?
What was the darkest time in your relationship?
What do you wish you had known before you got married?
What advice do you have for meeting and dealing with in-laws?
When are you going to start talking to your kids about sex?
In becoming a wife and mother have you ever felt pressure to fulfill gender-roles in your marriage?

We invite all our listeners to join us in Desire, January 19th-26th, 2010. Click this link, for details. We've changed the format of the show and now we're answering questions from listeners. Tonight we answer, "Why aren't we in an open relationship?" If you'd like us to answer your question, please post it on our Facebook accounts, Kidder and Jade, or email us at desire(at)bathtalkweekly.com

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Kidder and Jade catch up in the tub. They discuss their favorite places to masturbate. Jade can't masturbate if Kidder is in the house. Landscaping continues. Kidder and Jade get handy and learn how to remodel their kitchen using DIY books from hardware stores. They invite you to join them for a Desire trip in February 2011. Virginity still isn't a virtue. Kidder and Jade illustrate methods for asking for sex.

Coochie asks about barrier use at the club. Sex educators totally ignore their own advice in the heat of them. A tipsy Kidder explains the diseases transmission likelihood. Lorax and FKS experience a full swap with the British couple. They liked it so much that they did it again. Lorax is sporting her "fuck me eyes" and it is making everyone all hot and bothered. 

Sex is Fun day is a hit and we all play the GreatSexGames.com game, Swing Set. That was a blast. Kidder got Lorax off with a vibrating cockring. Jade made out with more guys and a really hot woman who makes custom glass dildos. She even crafted one to Kidder's specifications. Jade wants to try it out with her. Kidder discusses his fight or flight moments when he sees Jade kissing other men and how making out with other women puts him at ease. FKS discusses feeling the college crush after being in a relationship for so long. The thrill of being attractive to someone and the excitement of making out with other people is such a great joy even if it is just for one week.
 

The gang discusses how to make your first experiences with non-monogamous play more enjoyable and less disastrous.

A lazy day on the beach leads them back to the hot tub. On the way we meet D&A (a.k.a. East Coast Couple). Lorax and Jade get body shots. 15 people suck Lorax's tits. FKS learns Portuguese. Kidder gets blow job raped in the hot tub by non-Swingercast peeps.
 

That was fast. We got five orders in one night from listeners wanting to hear the second part of the show. Thanks everyone! Vodka-Pineapple drinks sneak up on you like a ninjas. Jade kisses one guy and then turns into an über-slut. A listener gets off on Kidder's erection while her husband helps from behind. FKS and and Lorax finally arrive. Kidder puts them at ease and has already found them the perfect couple to play with. Lorax hates heat which is pretty fucked up for someone vacationing in Cancun. Listeners expressed an interest to have Gay Rick and Coochie join the fun. Lorax hints at the idea that there are bisexual males at Desire. Kidder introduces FKS and Lorax to a nice British couple that is as hot as they are interesting.

 

Kidder and Jade are back and recording with friends Lorax, FKS, and Coochie. The gang intimately discuss their experience at Desire in Cancun, a clothing optional resort that caters to Non-Vanilla Thinkers. Get ready! There are a lot of firsts that happened on this trip.

 

We're back. Sort of.

 
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Learn how to give your partner divine hand massage. If you want to learn how to give even more pleasure to your partner, donate $30 and get the whole DVD.

Get the whole DVD from the Sex is Fun Store.

 

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Watch an excerpt from Sex is Fun presents: Erotic Massage, Back Massage

On this very special show we teach you how to give your partner a sensual back massage.  Get the whole DVD from the Sex is Fun Store. If you liked this show, please vote for us to win a podcast award at Podcastawards.com

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Jade and Kidder talk about disclosing sexual fantasies and conquering the fear of sharing your deeper thoughts with your partner. They warn about building walls of secrecy and maintaining a clear line of sexual communication. Every relationship has its peaks and valleys and Jade discusses methods for getting out of a valley and getting back to an upswing.

 

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Jade surprises Kidder with her freshly shaved goodies and they decide to try it out right in the tub, on the show, with the recorder running. If you ever wanted to hear Jade and Kidder get it on, this is the Bathtalk (not so weekly) for you. If you can actually hear anything over the sounds of splashing, thumping, groaning, breathing and moaning, you might actually learn something. Enjoy.

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We're back from Vegas and we had a good time. We talk about Jade's lap dance, the reverse cow girl, getting sauced and female domination.

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How should society deal with bullies?

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Girls ask the boys a sex question:
What is one thing your partner could do for you that would blow your mind?

Boys ask the girls a basic relationship question:
How do you feel when we are emotionally vulnerable?

Girls ask the boys a romance question:
What would you consider a romantic gesture that I could do for you?

Boys ask the girls a basic relationship question:
How should I integrate my goals, ambitions and hobbies into my relationship with you?

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This week on the BathTalk Gauntlet we'll have Dating and Romantic Questions:

Boys ask the Girls
How did we first meat?

Girls ask the Boys
What is your perfect 24 hour date?

Boys ask the Girls
What is the perfect recipe for a great date or intimate occasion?

Girls ask the Boys
What are the little things your partner does throughout the day that make your partner endearing to you?

 
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This week on the Bathtalk Weekly Gauntlet - More Sex Questions!

Girls ask the Boys
What do you wish your partner would do more often?

Boys ask the Girls
What do you want more of in bed?

Boys ask the Girls
Does a sexual affair ruin a relationship forever? Is there a difference between a sexual and emotional affair?

Girls ask the Boys
What's with the ass thing?

Boys ask the Girls
What is the best way for me to approach you about something new that I want to try in bed?

Girls ask the Boys
How does your partner's past lovers play a role in the relationship?

Boys ask the Girls
How many dates should you have before you have sex with a new lover? And a good question to make up for the lame question: Would you have oral sex with another girl if we asked you nicely?

Questions asked in this episode... General Relationships:

Boys ask the Girls
When you come home from work, what do you want to talk about?

Girls ask the Boys
How or when did your fight or flight instinct change?

Boys ask the Girls
How do you view a man's role in a modern relationship?

Girls ask the Boys
How do you deal with finances in your relationship?

Boys ask the Girls
What the hell is the right gift to give?

Girls ask the Boys
How involved are your friends and family in your relationship?

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Questions Asked in this episode... Parenting:

Boys ask the Girls
What traits make me a good father?

Girls ask the Boys
What are the traits that you see in your partner that make or would make them a great partner?

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Questions Asked in this episode... Sex: 

The Boys ask the Girls
Am I a generous lover? 

Girls ask the Boys
What is one thing your lover does really well?

Boys ask the Girls
Do you enjoy giving oral sex? How about Receiving? Please score us on a scale of 1-10.

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Questions Asked in this episode...

Dating:
Boys ask the Girls
What originally attract you to me?

Girls ask the boys
What was your first impression when we met?

General Relationships:
Boys ask the Girls
When I've done something to upset you. How do I know and what should I do?

Girls ask the boys
What is your partner's most irritating habit?

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Tonight we intro a series that we will be running over the next several weeks at BathTalk (Not-So-Weekly). We've invited some of our very best friends into our bathtub for some candid conversations about Romance, Relationships, Sex, and Parenting.

On the upcoming shows you will meet Sawyer and Kate, Hogan and Als, and Coochie and Dick. We hope you enjoy this experiment and learn as much as we did from the conversations.

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Tonight we're celebrating our 9th wedding anniversary. 

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Today we catch up with our listeners as we've missed you.

Is Kidder bisexual?

We discuss masturbation etiquette when in a relationship.

Where have we been and what have we been doing all summer?

Kidder talks about using an ATV for yard work including to convert your ATV into a dirt moving front end loader. Kidder also teaches you how to mow your lawn with your ATV for only $16 bucks in parts.

We discuss more boardgames including our new favorite, "Puerto Rico."

We discuss "Debauchery 8," our annual sex party that we throw. This year was a bit of a prudish party though we did beta test the new SwingSet Card Game.

Jade is now Kidder's assistant and working with each other is going well though Kidder has trouble keeping his hands off of Jade while at work.

We discuss sibling rivalry and how we helped our son realize that gets lots of attention even after the arrival of his baby sister.

We're back and we've got some great info about the benefits of Kissing.

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Get ready for a whole new season of BathTalk (not so) Weekly with Kidder and Jade!

We've got some surprise guests in our tub tonight. We're talking about board games and how they can be a really fun way to interact with your partner and friends.

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We must apologize for our poor chemistry on this show. We just didn't have in us to do a show and probably should have waited until we found a better topic.

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On Today's show Kidder and Jade talk about massage. They give tips for basic massage techniques, erotic massage, and books.

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What to do when your partner's sex drive does not match your own. Tips for initiating sex and ideas to talk your partner into meeting you half way.

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On today's show Kidder and Jade talk about how they plan out their summer.

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On Today's show Kidder and Jade talk about their first experience at Hedonism Resort

St. Patrick's Day and preserving memories through photo albums and home movies.

If you are planning to have children, would you like to know the recipe for choosing to have a boy or a girl? We'll give you all the details for this scientifically proven method for choosing X or Y chromosomes for your baby.

Books for reference: How to Choose the Sex of Your Baby by Landrum B. Shettles and David M. Rorvik

Taking Charge of Your Fertility: The Definitive Guide to Natural Birth Control, Pregnancy Achievement, and Reproductive Health by Toni Weschler

We also answer an email that asks about balancing intimacy while being parents. Our advice: Vacations, Babysitters and Grandparents.

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Learn how Kidder & Jade met, fell in love, got married, and started a family.

Kidder and Jade's first episode. In this week's show they tell us how taking a bath has helped their marriage.

The major life events that have occurred during baths.

And how they are able to relax and refocus on each other during a nice hot bath.

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